Where Are The Men At?

Let's look at the other side of yesterday's post.

Who is the most masculine man I know?

I'm not sure I have an answer for this question either.

To me, a real man is comfortable in his shoes. He's confident in himself. He has goals, he's focused and he goes after them. He remembers where he came from and takes care of his family. His relationship is strong with his wife (or partner) and his kids.

Men don't talk about their feelings. I know society push's this but I believe it's another thing that is messing with the masculine and feminine dynamic. It's not to say men don't have "stuff" they need to get off their chest, they just do it in a different way. No woman wants to listen to their man talk about his feelings. They want their man to listen to them.

A real man can command a room without saying anything.

As men we need to take responsibility. If work is not going well, it's our fault. If our relationship is shit, it's our fault. If we get sick, it's our fault. All the "bad" stuff is our fault.

And when things are "good", give the credit away. As men we sacrifice. It's all for the greater good.

Men, take control of your life!