That's On You

The law of attraction states that everything that we are experiencing, have experienced or will experience has been attracted to our lives by our own doing.

Personally, I believe in this. And if you're reading this, I'm guessing that you believe it or some part of you believes it to be true.

Like most things in life though, it's easy to take credit for the positive stuff. When you get that promotion, land a new client or finally get that date with the person of your dreams, you can say "I did this!"

But what about the negative stuff. Are you taking credit for that? Or are you blaming external factors?

Thanks to Grant Cardone's The 10X Rule, I have come to realize, yet again, the power of words.

I often say that things are happening FOR me but he has flipped that around to things are happening BECAUSE OF me.

That simple change of words creates a radical shift in mindset. All of a sudden I am taking radical responsibility for everything that happens in my life. Yes, I know most things in life are out of my control but that does not mean I have to relinquish responsibility.

We are responsible for our own lives. If shit's not working out or you're not happy with your current situation, that's on you and nobody else.